Anal sex

Some clarifications
Vaginal sex, also called penetrative sex, is when he inserts his penis into her vagina. If he pulls out before coming (having orgasm and ejaculating sperm), he could still make her pregnant because he ‘leaks’ fluid containing sperm before coming. And he could still spread or catch an STI because they’re in direct physical contact. Using a condom can minimise those risks.

Oral sex for a man is called fellatio and for a woman it’s cunnilingus. It’s better known as ‘going down’ on your partner, by using your lips and tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals. It can be part of foreplay or a way to give an orgasm. It doesn’t matter what sexual orientation you are: oral sex can be man to woman; man to man; woman to man; or woman to woman. It can’t make you pregnant but it can spread STIs if semen, blood or vaginal fluids enter the mouth. He needs to put a condom on before anyone starts going down on him. She can check that her partner has no sores or cuts on his or her mouth that might be herpes or could make it easier for an infection to enter the blood stream.

Anal sex is where he inserts his penis into his partner’s anus.  Both partners risk spreading or getting STIs, including HIV, if he isn’t wearing a condom. As soon as he gets it up, it needs to go on before he goes in.